41M living in northeast. My wife recently blindsided me by asking for divorce. I had absolutely no idea it was coming and she refused to work on anything. I’m trying to pick up the pieces and could use people to talk/vent to. Mostly looking for someone i can trust again.
About me: 41. Good sense of humor. Enjoy sports, music, tv/Netflix, craft beer, cooking. My favorite weekends are spent ordering pizza, chilling on the couch, and binging Netflix. Work full time and have a good career.
TMI: i have some health issues and do spend time in a wheelchair. This was a major factor in my divorce. My dream is still to have a child and a family. The divorce has killed most chances of that, but i still hope it will happen for me.
Up for talking about whatever.

Hey there! My name's Dan, and if I'm being completely honest, I'm here because I'm at the end of my rope. I've had terrible luck on every dating app known to humanity, so...why not, Reddit? (That just sounds off, saying that out loud, but who knows, right?)
To describe myself, I'm a person who has a lot of love to give and haven't found the right person for it. While in school, I was the type of person who friends would ask dating advice for and, well, it mostly worked out for them, but for me? I've had previous relationships before and a bad track history the last couple times (was cheated on in one and then ghosted after 3 years in another). Perhaps you can make a difference.
I'm an average looking guy. I took up exercising during the pandemic so, while most people gained weight while working from home in isolation, I lost weight during it. I started around 235lbs and I'm now at roughly 210, hoping to get down to 190 once more. I'm 5'10" and the tallest in my family. I also have a really nice paying job and just recently got a promotion.
As for my education, I have a B.A. and an M.A. in History, so I'm a sucker for historical facts and things like that (don't worry, I'm not the type of person who binge watches documentaries or anything like that lol). I originally planned to pursue a Ph.D, but with my career taking off at an interesting time, I've put those plans on hold for now (I hope to one day go for it completely!).
I'm looking for someone who can show me that love is indeed real. Like I've said, the last couple of relationships have been rough for me, and I do have a lot of love to give. I'm a bit shy at first so I'll probably end up saying a lot through text first, but after getting to know you, I open right up like your favorite book. If I had to pick an age group, it would be between 23 and 29.
Please just show me that someone is out there for me. :)

Tryna be ✨that girl✨ but mostly not succeeding ngl
Week Days
07:30 - Wake up, get dressed, eat breakfast (2 slices of toast one sweet one savoury, yogurt, and green tea), and fill water bottle
08:00 - Leave for school
15:45 - Arrive home, short break reading or Reddit
16:15 - Start revising/HW
18:30 - Dinner, short break watching YouTube
19:00 - Back to revising/HW
21:30 - Exercise while watching a documentary or a movie of one of my lit texts
22:00 - Shower, skincare routine
22:15 - Read a book
22:30 - Sleep
Weekend (Ideal; often other things come up)
09:00 - Wake up, read a book, eat breakfast
10:00 - Short walk, pick up an energy drink from the corner shop
10:30 - Start revising/HW
14:00 - Lunch, short break
14:30 - Back to revising/HW
18:30 - Dinner, short break
19:00 - Back to revising/HW
21:30 - Watch TV
22:30 - Shower, skincare routine
22:45 - Read a book
23:30 - Sleep

Hi everyone,
I learned how to use "insert table" function to use in sumifs function yesterday and it's really great. It makes my formulas more organized.
Currently I create a table in "Invoices" worksheet and named the table as "Invoices".
I have 2 problems;

1. My formula looks like this;

SUMIFS(Invoices[Amount],Invoices[Period],Z$5,Invoices[Contract],$C53,Invoices[Category],$D53)
When I copy to the next column, it shifts everything, making it look like below;
SUMIFS(Invoices[Retention],Invoices[Date],AA$5,Invoices[Job],$C53,Invoices[Category Description],$D53)
if there anyway I can $ sign to fix the formulas?

1. do I have to type the formula all the time for the table reference? Can't I just click it to pick up the entire "Invoices[Amount]"?

Thank you in advance.

Feetr is an algorithm which analyses momentum, looking for stocks which have the potential for massive gains today. Please see here for more information.
 
Here are todays top picks:

Stock	Impressions	Average Daily Volume	Current Volume	Link
GME	614.31	4.62M	4.34M	Click
FRC	117.94	19.49M	8.87M	Click
PACW	5.05	8.23M	976.24K	Click
TENX	3.01	3.7M	236.41K	Click
AMC	27.79	34.91M	2.32M	Click
VORB	1.77	658.01K	11.45M	Click

 
Here is the Feetr Screenr; a collection of stocks with higher than average volume

CODE	VOLUME (%)	IMPRESSIONS	MARKET CAP	YDAY INCREASE (%)	CURR. PRICE CHANGE (%)	Link
VORB	1332.81		$174.98M	0.00	81.45	Click
PYXS	286.91		$82.83M	0.85	2.27	Click
ETNB	249.59		$614.23M	1.95	39.52	Click
ALZN	137.05		$35.69M	16.00	11.19	Click
TBIO	120.69		$61.7M	7.73	18.55	Click
HSDT	84.30		$6.49M	6.06	7.01	Click
GME	69.05	614.31	$5.14B	7.00	53.82	Click
JAN	66.73		$3.69M	1.58	29.06	Click
JAGX	59.33	2.01	$3.12M	30.77	-5.94	Click
CISO	53.19	5.05	$34.1M	3.60	-11.94	Click
TSEM	49.74		$4.4B	1.56	1.84	Click
DBD	47.74	4.12	$83.59M	4.55	24.81	Click
FRC	40.07	117.94	$2.23B	24.22	-5.77	Click
SCYX	37.04	2.18	$37.56M	30.33	7.05	Click
PEAR	25.64	2.02	$29.35M	60.00	-4.95	Click
JMAC	24.06		$156.97M	0.00	24.29	Click
CDTX	20.43		$143.83M	16.02	4.04	Click
OBSV	19.10		$10.01M	4.96	0.58	Click
BSFC	17.02	2.09	$5.83M	22.93	-3.39	Click
DRMA	16.98		$1.22M	114.37	-6.58	Click
KOSS	16.17		$40.25M	1.12	3.17	Click
QLGN	16.11		$4.13M	14.17	-7.89	Click
MINM	14.97		$5.66M	21.79	2.83	Click
BOXD	14.63		$10.12M	0.00	11.67	Click
AZYO	11.90		$23.38M	1.29	0.00	Click
CETX	10.60		$6.43M	12.36	6.04	Click
LLAP	10.59	7.18	$246.32M	0.00	3.22	Click
SPPI	10.55		$162.58M	1.29	5.38	Click
UBS	9.28	294.02	$61.08B	5.72	-2.27	Click
PBTS	7.16	19.84	$20.22M	16.09	1.25	Click
NVOS	7.09	70.58	$13.75M	5.96	-9.42	Click
PACW	6.76	5.05	$1.21B	10.10	-2.71	Click
BIO	6.66	6.94	$13.82B	2.09	0.00	Click
BBBY	5.39	155.62	$94.93M	4.91	7.39	Click
AMC	5.39	27.79	$2.24B	2.67	7.48	Click
QNCX	5.20	7.05	$30.53M	14.18	-4.17	Click
BODY	5.07	6.11	$157.67M	7.25	-4.33	Click
PXMD	3.08	16.36	$31.17M	3.86	0.00	Click

Note that VOLUME (%) is the current premarket volume as a percentage of the average daily volume
 
Disclaimer: Feetr is an algorithm. It's math, not magic. You are responsible for any trades that you choose to make. A stock pick by Feetr is not a guarantee of a price increase. If you are new to day trading, I would recommend using these stocks to practise on a demo account or simply on paper, writing when you'd buy or sell and analysing why you made each decision.
You can view all previous stock picks at feetr.io/history and the leaderboards can be seen at feetr.io/leaderboard

It's Tuesday and a lot of things happened since yesterday. Let's dive in:

What's new

Longines Adds To The Spirit Collection With The New Flyback Chronograph
/ Longines’ Spirit line has been a reliable source of handsome and heritage-inspired pilot's watches. New to the line is today's Flyback Chronograph, an evolution of the chrono released in 2020. The watch is still 42mm with large Arabic numerals and 100m of water resistance but from there everything changes. The most obvious update is the flyback functionality which allows the user to instantly reset the chronograph seconds hand to zero, streamlining the stop, start, reset function of a regular chronograph.
The new Flyback Chronograph loses a subdial and date from the non-flyback model. There's a bidirectional rotating bezel with a ceramic insert and the watch comes in either a blue or black sunray dial. The Super-LumiNova gives a nice lume on the numerals on both the dial and bezel. Strap options include brown leather, blue fabric, and beige NATO or a stainless steel bracelet. Inside there's the new COSC-certified L791.4 movement (with silicon balance spring) which is on full display thanks to the transparent sapphire caseback.
Pricing is actually really great for all the functionalities is gives - $4,450. If they could just remove the five star review they gave themselves on the dial, this would be a top 10 watch to have.
Breitling's Top Time Classic Cars Collection Goes In-House And Adds A Thunderbird
/ Collaborations between watch brands and car makers often end up on the wrong side of tacky. Aston Martin and Bentley make gorgeous cars but most of the watches they lent their name to were horrible. Do we even have to mention what Ferrari did with Hublot? However, every now and again we get a collaboration that’s not only perfect, but could be one of the best watches in the brand’s lineup.
And that’s exactly the case with the Breitling Top Time Classic Cars Editions. In 2021 the brand unveiled three new Top Time models connected to American sports cars from the ’60s - the Corvette, Cobra and Mustang. The watches had stood a huge chance of becoming horrible homages, but ended up being colorful chronos with bold design and a hit for the company.
Now, 18 months later, Breitling announces they are adding a new model inspired by the Ford Thunderbird and all four models of the Top Time Classic Cars Editions are getting their in-house chronograph movement.
Each of the available colorways represents a specific link to one of four well-known classic cars – the Chevrolet Corvette (red), the Ford Thunderbird (white), the Shelby Cobra (blue), and the Ford Mustang (green). These new models are 41mm wide (down from 42mm) and all four are fitted with a Breitling B01 automatic chronograph movement. All four don’t have a date and the Mustang, Corvette, and Thunderbird models all have three subdials providing a 12-hour maximum measure and 1/4th of a second resolution. The Shelby Cobra model uses two subdials for the chronograph and has a maximum measure of 30 minutes.
Pricing starts at $8,000 on a leather strap or $8,440 on a steel mesh bracelet. Love it!
Also, A Blog To Watch had the opportunity to go hands on with the new Thunderbird model, so head on over there for more details of the new model and a deeper dive.
Breitling Introduces Six New Premier B01 Chronograph 42 Models
/ The Breitling Premier Chronograph line gets a refresh in a 42mm, B01-powered form. This is a historically important collection to Breitling as it represents the shift the brand made in the 1940s from core utilitarian tool-watches to something with a bit more panache. In 2021, the brand released the 40mm Breitling Premier Heritage Chrono, a 40mm model which directly played on the, well, heritage of the model range. That watch was powered by the brand's B09 movement.
Now, for 2023 there are updates to the model. At a quick glance, the six new Breitling Premier B01 Chronograph 42 watches almost seem like models that should already exist somewhere in the brand’s catalog. The new stainless steel watches now feature applied Arabic numerals instead of baton markers, syringe-style hands, a new sub-register layout, and new dial text that reads "Chronograph Premier," instead of "Chronometer Premier." This model also gets the in-house B01 chronograph movement, which has COSC certification.
The Premier premieres today with a bracelet and a new set of dial colors. In all, there are five new dial options of black, blue, salmon, green, or cream. There is even an 18k red gold model, also on a strap or bracelet. The stainless steel models will cost $9,100 on the strap and $9,500 on a bracelet. The 18k gold model will cost $20,200 on the strap and $39,700 on a bracelet.
The Ressence TYPE 1° Round Is A Streamlined Take On Its Classic Watch
/ I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - Ressence is my favorite watchmaker and the oil-filled Type 3 is my grail. So know they can do nothing wrong in my book. Of course I love their update of the Type 1 model with the new essential Round version.
The Type 1 is basically the backbone of the collection, an evolution of the Zero Series which introduced their unique way of displaying time using gears and discs. We’ve seen gradual evolutions, first by removing the crown, then by changing the case design. First came the Type 1 Square, and then the Type 1 Slim.
The Ressence TYPE 1° Round, this is nothing more than a modernized take on the brand’s signature watch, slightly redesigned to remain coherent with other creations currently available. The grade 5 titanium case measures 42.7mm in diameter, with a compact 11mm height. Some work has been done to the dial too, but not so much about the emblematic display. Available in a classic black edition too, it’s mostly the circular brushed blue model that is there to catch the attention. The discs have now a sunray-brushed surface, adding depth to the whole assembly, while the dial has been graphically simplified with indexes every 10 minutes and a weekday dial that subtly unites the 2 non-working days of the week with a touch of colour. Also, the seconds and weekdays hands are larger for improved reading.
The Ressence TYPE 1° Round will be available worldwide in two finishes – Black and Night Blue – from June 2023 as part of the permanent collection, and priced at CHF 16,800 (excl. taxes).
For The First Time, The MB&F Legacy Machine Perpetual Is Now In Steel With A Salmon Dial
/ Say what you will, but MB&F makes some very interesting watches. While their Horological Machines line might be a bit out there, the Legacy Machine line, while still not a practical daily beater, is an acceptable exploration of what’s possible in horology.
And since its launch in 2015, MB&F's Legacy Machine (LM) Perpetual has come in a lot of metals. red gold, platinum, white gold, titanium, yellow gold, and palladium... But there’s one metal they never made - steel. That’s why they announced today that they are launching the LM Perpetual in stainless steel, with a tasty salmon dial to boot.
Everything else remains pretty much the same - the fully integrated 581-component caliber, the 44mm wide and 17.5mm thick case… The price also remains eye-watering at $180,000. Good news for everyone who can afford it, it won’t be a limited edition.
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On hand - a selection of review

Hands on with the RZE Ascentus GMT, a very affordable titanium sports watches
IFL Watches Turns Up The Grail Volume With The Limited-Edition Tissot PRX Galaxy
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Watch Worthy - A look at an offbeat, less known watch you might actually like

Ferdinand Berthoud Gives The Movement That Started It All A Last Run
After eight years, the inaugural Ferdinand Berthoud calibre FB-T.FC that debuted in the FB1 has reached the end of the road. When the FB1 was launched in 2015, it represented one of the most earnest exercises in recreating a marine chronometer for the wrist. The calibre FB-T.FC is an appealingly anachronistic, tourbillon movement with a pillar construction, Maltese cross stopwork and a chain-and-fusée mechanism. But more than a portable museum of 18th century technical solutions, it was also finished to a remarkable degree. Today, the brand is giving a curtain call to the calibre FB-T.FC with the Chronomètre FB 2T.
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A bonus link

I usually reserve watch-adjacent content for the newsletter, but this story from Harper's about what makes a perfect scientific second and how complicated of a problem this ends up being is just too good not to share here as well
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I know I am one year late with this. But I just picked up the game like 3 weeks ago and since then I poured like 150hours in it. LOL. This is my first souls like game and really loved it. I like bashing my head agaisnt the keyboard untill I manage to kill something to get the satisfaction that I managed to rise up to the challenge.
So after using NPC summon on Margit felt like that was simply not accomplished, felt like I robbed myself out of something, so I decided not to use any summon on bosses.
(I lie a bit here cause after fighting godskins duo in a cave getting beaten AF when in Farum I got so mad of the duo I cheesed the hell out of them with NPC summons and Mimic +10 and bloodhound fang and I still feel good about it, would do it again 10 times, cause FUCK EM especially the chubby guy)
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The past 5 days been stuck on Malenia, tryin' everything, different weapons, read a lot of tips on reddit, saw Let me Solo Her do it and others and even respeced a few times. At the end I added bloodhound step ash of war on a dagger and I would switch to dodge more 'reliably' her dance but for me still dodge it seems light load dodge was more realiable especially after getting the timings right. Managed to do it with double twinblade cause I saw she gets bleed like crazy and if frostbite procs she really feels slow as hell but usually it doesn't. Also Eleonora's Poleblade is amazing after some combos you can punish her really hard with the ash of war.
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This is not a gloat post is just the fact I am really happy I managed to do it and want to thank everyone which helped indirectly. I really like reading a lot of posts since that feels more engagin' with people who where in the same boat rather than followin' guides.
Tl;dr finally killed Malenia, thanks for the help from the comunity, have a great one!

Feetr is an algorithm which analyses momentum, looking for stocks which have the potential for massive gains today. Please see here for more information.
 
Here are todays top picks:

Stock	Impressions	Average Daily Volume	Current Volume	Link
GME	614.31	4.62M	4.34M	Click
FRC	117.94	19.49M	8.87M	Click
PACW	5.05	8.23M	976.24K	Click
TENX	3.01	3.7M	236.41K	Click
AMC	27.79	34.91M	2.32M	Click
VORB	1.77	658.01K	11.45M	Click

 
Here is the Feetr Screenr; a collection of stocks with higher than average volume

CODE	VOLUME (%)	IMPRESSIONS	MARKET CAP	YDAY INCREASE (%)	CURR. PRICE CHANGE (%)	Link
VORB	1332.81		$174.98M	0.00	81.45	Click
PYXS	286.91		$82.83M	0.85	2.27	Click
ETNB	249.59		$614.23M	1.95	39.52	Click
ALZN	137.05		$35.69M	16.00	11.19	Click
TBIO	120.69		$61.7M	7.73	18.55	Click
HSDT	84.30		$6.49M	6.06	7.01	Click
GME	69.05	614.31	$5.14B	7.00	53.82	Click
JAN	66.73		$3.69M	1.58	29.06	Click
JAGX	59.33	2.01	$3.12M	30.77	-5.94	Click
CISO	53.19	5.05	$34.1M	3.60	-11.94	Click
TSEM	49.74		$4.4B	1.56	1.84	Click
DBD	47.74	4.12	$83.59M	4.55	24.81	Click
FRC	40.07	117.94	$2.23B	24.22	-5.77	Click
SCYX	37.04	2.18	$37.56M	30.33	7.05	Click
PEAR	25.64	2.02	$29.35M	60.00	-4.95	Click
JMAC	24.06		$156.97M	0.00	24.29	Click
CDTX	20.43		$143.83M	16.02	4.04	Click
OBSV	19.10		$10.01M	4.96	0.58	Click
BSFC	17.02	2.09	$5.83M	22.93	-3.39	Click
DRMA	16.98		$1.22M	114.37	-6.58	Click
KOSS	16.17		$40.25M	1.12	3.17	Click
QLGN	16.11		$4.13M	14.17	-7.89	Click
MINM	14.97		$5.66M	21.79	2.83	Click
BOXD	14.63		$10.12M	0.00	11.67	Click
AZYO	11.90		$23.38M	1.29	0.00	Click
CETX	10.60		$6.43M	12.36	6.04	Click
LLAP	10.59	7.18	$246.32M	0.00	3.22	Click
SPPI	10.55		$162.58M	1.29	5.38	Click
UBS	9.28	294.02	$61.08B	5.72	-2.27	Click
PBTS	7.16	19.84	$20.22M	16.09	1.25	Click
NVOS	7.09	70.58	$13.75M	5.96	-9.42	Click
PACW	6.76	5.05	$1.21B	10.10	-2.71	Click
BIO	6.66	6.94	$13.82B	2.09	0.00	Click
BBBY	5.39	155.62	$94.93M	4.91	7.39	Click
AMC	5.39	27.79	$2.24B	2.67	7.48	Click
QNCX	5.20	7.05	$30.53M	14.18	-4.17	Click
BODY	5.07	6.11	$157.67M	7.25	-4.33	Click
PXMD	3.08	16.36	$31.17M	3.86	0.00	Click

Note that VOLUME (%) is the current premarket volume as a percentage of the average daily volume
 
Disclaimer: Feetr is an algorithm. It's math, not magic. You are responsible for any trades that you choose to make. A stock pick by Feetr is not a guarantee of a price increase. If you are new to day trading, I would recommend using these stocks to practise on a demo account or simply on paper, writing when you'd buy or sell and analysing why you made each decision.
You can view all previous stock picks at feetr.io/history and the leaderboards can be seen at feetr.io/leaderboard

Hello /Vita and welcome to our new collection thread - the bi-monthly collector's botique. Feel free to post your collections, hauls, pick-ups, and deals below!
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I'm sorry if this isn't allowed I'm not really sure where to post this for feedback.
It's an odd question I know, but I want to get an idea from people on if this is something I could do as a side job. I know just from my own hunting for things that some things can only be found in the parks and no option to buy direct from disney.
I honestly just like being able to enjoy the park and being there. I try to go every other month and around holidays that offer special events/merch. I do tend to spend a lot of money on going even though I'm only in Northern California. So I was brainstorming about how to make some of that money back if it is possible.
I've done local pickup for some of the elderly or full-time job people in my community that just don't have the time for it. Even sometimes going to the next county over to grab things that needed to be picked up and deliver them to the person's home. I've also shipped a few things to family friends that are local things only after they moved away, so I know that is possible. I've shipped wine before it shouldn't be that hard to ship things like popcorn buckets or park exclusives to people. I don't mean buy a ton of things in bulk and sell them. I mean somebody contacts me saying I'm looking for this (for example 2 Disney 100 magic key popcorn buckets) then on my next trip I pick up two for them and they pay me a small pickup fee, what I paid in the park, and whatever shipping is. I know some people only go to the parks one or two times a year but still want things that are in the park but don't always want to pay so much more than what the item originally cost.
Is that something people would be interested in?

What is the most offbeat hobby you've ever picked up and why did you enjoy it?

I've been having difficulties with the Echoes system. I've been progressing an Offline Marksman and have got to level 68 and am completing the level 70 area "Blood, Frost and Death". I have full stability across the bar at the top.
However the issue i'm experiencing is an infinite load time for the first of the quest echoes "Wengari Battleground", i've experienced this previously on one of the earlier island type levels, however i dropped the graphics quality and verified the integrity of the cache and it eventually booted up. This time however no matter the adjustments it takes me to the loading screen, and loads forever.
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Occasionally if i try to leave and force quit, i'm taken to the finishing area where quest rewards and the such like should be, however i have no UI whatsoever, some of the Stability has been removed, so it's like i've loaded into and then left the level, which implys to me that it IS loading in the background however it just does not change my view to the view of the level, just the loading screen going round and round over and over.
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I've Tried looking online for solutions to this, however most loading bugs are attributed to Online play and queue times. This is neither. It's also worth noting that i got this game a few years ago and leveled a character to 96 with no such issues at the time, so something has changed in the past few years, my computer itself has only gotten better, so i'd be suprised if there was an issue with the hardware.
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Has anyone else experienced similar issues?

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Hi guys, I recently read a local article about a bill being proposed where the gist of it is that Autistic drivers would be required to have their licenses noted that the driver is Autistic and that their license plates also have a code or symbol indicating the same. Apparently there is a similar law in CT already where the driver also has a blue envelope somewhere on or in the car with instructions on what police should expect and how police should interact and communicate with the autistic driver. The bill in RI was initially proposed by an autistic teenager here in RI looking to make the lives of Autistic people easier when dealing with the complex and difficult/stressful event of being pulled over.
As a parent of an Autistic child, I don't know how to feel about this. On one hand, I think "great, this can help alleviate potentially dangerous situations for people who have difficulty communicating and picking up social cues." But on the other, I feel like broadcasting the diagnosis will possibly lead to more stigmatization or potential bullying by other drivers on the road or even by police. In essence, I fear it will make them a target.
What is your take on this?

Hello all - I'm in a situation and would love some advice. I'll lay a little backstory down and then the situation.
I've been in healthcare since 2002, working face to face with patients. I believe in science and the power of smart minds working together. I married into a family that have some ideals that are different from mine, but nothing we haven't been able to work around and love each other for. Until Covid. That separated us. I married into a family who believe in a lot of government conspiracies. My MIL is someone who believes Covid wasn't a real virus, whereas I watched my nursing friends in the ER die from it. During Covid, she took my children for a weekend and when we returned to pick them up, we discovered she had taken them to visit their Aunt and Uncle who also believe Covid isn't real. We had asked her to keep them at her house with her and her alone and she had agreed to do that. This turned into a big issue - I was incredibly upset and angry. This was, again, in 2020 when she took them and thats the LAST time she had them. She hasn't messaged my husband or I to ask about them (her grandkids), she stopped showing up to my husbands gigs and even missed his record album release show. So did his sister and BIL (the ones who MIL brought my kids to) My MIL came to my house a few months after all of this happened so we could "talk" but all that happened was i was yelled at and told i use my kids as weapons and hold them hostage against the people who want to see them. I don't believe that to be true.
My husband travels with his career, and at times I'm alone with my children for weeks at a time - which isn't a big deal. I'm a mommy and I love it. My husband and I haven't had any time together alone since that one weekend in 2020 and we are both burnt out. I quit my healthcare job in January due to mental health reasons (I was working at Mayo Clinic - it was way too much) and now I'm a full time student. My husband and I need/want some time away just us two and we celebrated our ten year wedding anniversary last year. Now that we are vaccinated and boosted and feeling good, my husband wants to travel somewhere just him and i. I don't have a relationship with my alcoholic parents, so my MIL has been our only "babysitter". Since she came over to talk about disrespecting my wishes about bringing my children to people during the pandemic, we haven't heard anything from her. She doesn't text or call to ask about the kids (Not even my husband) and he reached out to her to ask her to PLEASE take the kids so we could have a vacation. I don't like that. I don't want to leave my children with someone who doesn't respect my wishes. I also feel incredibly disrespected by his entire familiy. I had my kids alone for 30 days while he was traveling in the middle of a MN winter and NONE OF THEM even bothered to text and check in on us. None. I don't want to leave my kids with her and I feel like its in my right to say "You don't respect me, you don't value my feelings - so I don't trust you with my kids". Am i wrong!? My husband is incredibly upset and wants to travel and take this vacation but I don't feel like its responsible to leave them with her. What do you guys think? Can I get some advice?